UURMAPA Fall 2019 Conference Schedule

Tentative – subject to change

Celebrating the Rainbow — The UU Journey Toward LGBTQIA* Rights
Wisdom House Retreat Center
Litchfield, Connecticut
October 7-10, 2019

MONDAY, October 7, 2019
3:00 p.m. Registration & Settling into Rooms
4:30 Social Hour
5:30 Dinner
6:30 Welcome, Introductions, and check in
7:50 Break
8:00 In Memoriam Worship Service
9:00 Social Hour

TUESDAY, October 8, 2019
(Single day attended by commuters)
8:00 am Breakfast
9:00 Keynote Address – Keith Kron
10:30 Break
10:40 Keynote (cont.) with reflection by Meg Riley
12:00 n Lunch
1:00 pm Panel #1– LGBTQIA Ministers and Partners
2:30 Break
2:40 Remembering LGBTQIA Pioneers No Longer with Us
Facilitated by UURMaPA Board Members
4:30 Free time
5:00 Social Hour
6:00 Dinner
7:15 Odyssey – Mark Belletini
8:45 Social Hour

WEDNESDAY, October 9, 2019
8:00 am Breakfast
9:00 Worship Service
9:30 Panel #2– LGBTQIA Ministers and Partners
11:00 Break
11:15 Conversation with Michael Crumpler, LGBTQ & Intercultural
Programs Manager
12:00 n Lunch
1:00 pm Choose one:
Workshops (TBD)
Videotaping of Personal Stories
Free time when not otherwise occupied
2:15 Videotaping of Personal Stories (cont.) or
Free time
5:00 Social Hour
6:00 Dinner
7:15 Wide Variety Show
8:45 Social Hour

THURSDAY, October 10, 2019
8:00 am Breakfast
9:00 UURMaPA Conversations (Activity Updates and Discussion)
11:00 Closing Worship Service – Meg Riley
12:00 n Lunch
1:00 pm Farewells (Please leave name tags and filled out evaluations.)

*A recent acronym, which can translate as: lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer (or questioning), intersex, and asexual (or allies)

The Rev. Judith A. Walker-Riggs

The Rev. Judith A. Walker-Riggs died on July 8, 2019 at the age of 79.

Judith is survived by her sons Iain Urquhart and James Urquhart; and her stepson Steven Riggs.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of one’s own choosing. UURMaPA will contribute $50 to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.

A celebration of Judith’s life took place at 10 am on Saturday, July 13, 2019 at the Northwest Unitarian Universalist Congregation, 1025 Mt. Vernon Highway NW, Sandy Springs, GA 30327.

Notes of condolence may be sent to James Urquhart at 3208 Fairview Avenue, Alameda, CA 94501.

A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed.

Creative Sageing Award for 2019 — Carolyn Owen-Towle

Carolyn Owen-Towle

The Creative Sageing Award for 2019 was presented to Carolyn Owen-Towle by Judy Welles at UURMaPA’s annual luncheon in Spokane on June 21. Here is the citation:

The Reverend Carolyn Owen-Towle has been a path-breaking minister throughout her years of distinguished service and leadership.

She was Co-Minister with her spouse, Tom Owen-Towle, at the First UU Church of San Diego, 1978 – 2002. While serving that large congregation, she was also asked to take on a series of leadership roles:  President of the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee (UUSC), then President of the Unitarian Universalist Ministers Association (UUMA). She was nominated as a candidate for President of the UUA in 1993, an election she narrowly lost.

Her commitments to social justice, collegial strengthening, and denominational leadership were integrated into her preaching and pastoral roles in ministry. Carolyn was named Minister Emerita by the San Diego congregation.

She now has had seventeen years of retirement. These years are what we honor with the Creative Sageing Award.

Carolyn resumed her engagement with the art world in which she was raised, and which she studied in college. In retirement she has pursued her ongoing exploration of the value and centrality of beauty.

Carolyn has given her passion for art to institutions devoted to it. She served as President of the Board of the Mingei International Folk Art & Design Museum in San Diego, and has been on the Board of that vital institution for some sixteen years. She also sits on the board of two artist foundations: that of Sam Maloof and of James Hubbel.

Carolyn wrote Damngorgeous: A Daughter’s Memoir of Millard Owen Sheets. It was published by The Oceanside Museum of Art in 2009. The title comes from a favorite expression coined by her late father.  She quotes him in a letter saying he had “… two months to paint a real honest to gosh show, or in stronger language, a damngorgeous, supermaligorical pile of canvases.”

In 2017 Carolyn was named Distinguished Alumna of Scripps, on the occasion of her 60th class reunion. In her acceptance speech she noted the tectonic shifts in expectations and opportunities for women in the span of her education and career.

Carolyn is currently Chair of “HEResies,” an archive formed several years ago at Meadville Lombard for women clergy, religious educators and women leaders in our movement. Carolyn is working with John Leeker, Meadville Archivist, and Sarah Levine, Project Archivist, inviting women to submit their papers, which will be digitized. Meadville Lombard will make the collection accessible to anyone, anywhere.

Carolyn has been a partner par excellence to her spouse, Tom, and a devoted grandmother to their seven grandchildren.

UURMAPA is proud to honor The Reverend Dr. Carolyn Owen-Towle with the 2019 Creative Sageing Award!

Unsung UURMaPAn for 2017 — Ellen Brandenburg

The winner of the 2017 Unsung UURMaPAN Award is the Rev. Ellen Brandenburg. Marni Harmony presented the award at our Florida conference. In the citation, Marni recognized Ellen’s work with ministerial aspirants as the Ministerial Credentialing Director for the UUA and her role in developing the Regional Sub-Committees on Candidacy.

Marni Harmony presents the 2017 Unsung UURMaPAn Award to Ellen Brandenburg

Since her retirement, Ellen has volunteered as a docent at the Peabody Essex Museum, an outstanding art museum near her home in Salem, Massachusetts. She survived a health crisis and the death of her husband George and continued her involvement with the Salem congregation. After George’s passing, Ellen studied the nuances of sailing and successfully became the skipper of their sailboat.

She has quietly said “yes” to some things that keep UURMaPA going. She joined the task group with me and the UURMaPA Vice President before me to research and deduce who would receive our Creative Sageing Award. She chaired the UURMaPA Nominating Committee for two terms, from 2009 to 2013 and both she and George were famous for the hospitality they provided at the Attleboro fall conferences. Writes Diane Miller, “Ellen sails on an even keel, even when the waters are rough. She meets challenges with an open and clear mind. She connects with people with equanimity and genuine interest.”

Marni concluded, “This is the award for the “Unsung” UURMaPAn. Although I know some, I don’t know all the ways Ellen has contributed to the greater good. But I do know that among her talents — and they are many — Ellen can easily bring us joy and laughter as she carefully hangs spoon after spoon on her face. That, alone, would be enough to warrant this award.”

The Rev. Oren Arthur “Pete” Peterson

The Rev. Oren Arthur “Pete” Peterson died on June 10, 2019, at the age of 91.

Oren is survived by his wife of 49 years, Patricia Knight Peterson; his children Thea Peterson, Thomas Peterson, Laura Peterson, and David Peterson; his nine grandchildren Michael, Oren Silas, Nathan, Beth, Rebecca, Anton, Tepper, Stella, and Leonard; and his three great-grandchildren Theo, Raven, and Alva. He was preceded in death by his siblings Adela Engel and Phyllis Murphy; his twin brother Keith Peterson; his sons Oren A. Peterson Jr and Paul Peterson; and his grandson Max.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Planned Parenthood of the Heartland; and to the Good Life Fund at Scottish Rite Park, 2909 Woodland Avenue, Des Moines, IA 50312. UURMaPA will contribute $50 to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.

A celebration of Oren’s life will take place at 10.30 am on Saturday, August 17, 2019, at the First Unitarian Church of Des Moines, 1800 Bell Ave, Des Moines, IA 50315.

Notes of condolence may be sent Patricia Peterson at 2909 Woodland Ave, Apt # 1001, Des Moines, IA 50312.

A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed.

The Rev. Carolyn W. Colbert

Carolyn Colbert
Carolyn Colbert

The Reverend Carolyn Wood Colbert—artist, teacher, poet, parish minister, community organizer, justice activist, and lover of nature—died on 4 June 2019, at the age of 85.

Carolyn lived with beauty, artistry, and passion. Whenever there was a protest for peace, for reproductive rights, or a task force on domestic violence, she was there, planning, organizing, or speaking. Her sarcastic wit was an ever-present delight. During a “question box” sermon, when a congregant boldly asked about her love life, she answered demurely, “I don’t like to speak of small electric appliances in public.”

Carolyn Helen Colbert was born on 24 May 1934, in Oakland, California, to Horton Richard Colbert, a Universalist minister, and Lynette Wood Colbert. (She later adopted her mother’s birth name in place of Helen.) Married at age 19 to Paul Sawyer, and then divorced at age 33, she undertook extensive training and then teaching and leadership in awareness techniques, group process, Gestalt therapy, and human development theory, both in private practice and on Starr King School’s adjunct faculty. In 1978 the teacher became the student, and she was graduated from Starr King with her M.Div. in 1982.

Ordained on 10 June 1984 by the Unitarian Church of Davis, CA, the Rev’d Ms. Colbert served as an extension minister at the Community UU Church, Kennewick, WA. She then took calls to the UUs of San Luis Obispo, CA, and to the UU Church in Eugene, OR, with a number of interim ministries in between. On formal retirement in 2006, she was elected minister emerita by the Eugene church. After retirement, she served additional interim ministries in Los Gatos, CA, Livermore, CA and Rogue Valley, OR.

In final retirement, Carolyn lived for several years in El Cerrito, CA, where, to her delight, deer came to visit the creek that ran through her backyard. She is survived by daughters Charlin, Shanda, and Katherine Sawyer, her beloved black cat Layla, and innumerable friends and colleagues.

The Rev. Mary L. Knight

The Rev. Mary L. Knight died on May 22, 2019 at the age of 64.

Mary is survived by her mother Sara Lou Knight; her brothers Bill Knight, Tom Knight, Joel Knight, Dee Knight, David Knight, and Jim Knight; her cousin Susan Knight, nephew Tim Knight, and niece Julie Knight Iwayama; as well as several cousins, nieces and nephews throughout Pacific Northwest, Alaska, California and Utah.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a charity of one’s own choosing, as well as to the PAWS (Progressive Animal Welfare Society), PO Box 1037, Lynwood, WA 98046.

UURMaPA will contribute $50 to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.

A celebration of Mary’s life will be held at 2 pm on Sunday, July 14, 2019 at the First Unitarian Church of Portland, 1211 SW Main St, Portland, OR 97205.

Notes of condolences may be sent to The Knight Family at PO Box 17761, Seattle WA 98127.

A more complete obituary will follow.

The Rev. Erinn Melby

The Rev. Erinn Melby died on May 18, 2019 at the age of 70.

Erinn is survived by her children Hans Melby, Bjorn Melby, Anna (Melby) Strain; and her aunt Joanne (McNellis) Kavanaugh.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to TRUUST (Transgender Religious Professional UUs Together) as well as to the American Cancer Society UURMaPA will contribute $50 to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.

A celebration of Erinn’s life will take place at 2 pm on Saturday, July 27th, 2019 at the UU Church of Davis, 27074 Patwin Rd, Davis, CA 95616.

Notes of condolence may be sent to Anna Strain at 8805 Acadia Road, St. Paul, MN 55125.

A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed.