Robert Taliaferro Sorrells

Robert Sorrells

Robert Taliaferro Sorrells, spouse of the Reverend Dillman Baker Sorrells, died 2 May 2021 at age 88, after suffering from Alzheimer’s disease for several years. Born in New York City in 1932, Bob attended Staunton Military Academy in Virginia and then Vanderbilt University, which was interrupted for service in the U.S. Army. He returned to earn a degree in History and a Masters in English Literature from Vanderbilt. He subsequently earned an MFA in Creative Writing from the Writer’s Workshop at the University of Iowa.

Bob was a faculty member at Murray State University, Clemson University, and the University of Arkansas before leaving academia to focus on his writing. He published several books, including a book of short stories, The Blacktop Champion of Icky Honey, and a book of essays called On Breaking One’s Pencil. He was awarded a PEN/NEA Syndicated Fiction Award, and his work was often anthologized, including in The Best American Short Stories. Though he was primarily a fiction writer, Bob often said that a history he wrote of the Clemson University Experimental Forest was among the works of which he was most proud.

A long-time fan of the Atlanta Braves, he enjoyed listening to baseball on the radio, and wrote a short story about missing Hank Aaron’s 715th  home run. He was also a great fan of the Clemson soccer team. He loved to walk for exercise and could often be seen striding briskly along the roads of Clemson.

Bob Sorrells

Bob was a Unitarian Universalist for most of his adult life, and an early member of the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Clemson. A great enthusiast of music, he sang for many years in the UU choir and created Gifts of Music, a series that aired on South Carolina Public Radio.

Bob is survived by his children Walter Arl Sorrells and Ruth Lindsey Sorrells, both of Atlanta; his grandson Jake Alfred Robert Sorrells of New Orleans; and by his loving wife of 59 years, the Rev. Dillman Baker Sorrells of Clemson.

Elissa Beryl Bishop-Becker

Elissa Bishop-Becker

Elissa Beryl Bishop-Becker, beloved partner of the Reverend Dr. Randy Becker, died 27 April 2021, after a brief battle with cancer. She was born in New York on 20 July 1947 and grew up on Long Island. A journey through several universities (American, New School, Hofstra, Adelphi) brought her a bachelor’s degree in English from Hunter College.  Her early work was in editing and writing, especially poetry. 

By her own admission and delight, her greatest achievement was the birth of her daughter, Ericka Brindl Bishop in 1975.  A single mother for many years, she supported and encouraged Ericka’s growth and education.

In 1992, Elissa married Randy Becker, a longtime friend to both herself and Ericka. In their married life, Elissa and Randy lived on Long Island; Williamsburg, Virginia; Park Forest, Illinois; eventually settling in Key West, Florida.

Ericka’s tragic death in 1995 by a drunk driver, at age 20 was a turning point in Elissa’s life. She entered the community counseling program of the College of William and Mary in 1997, and in 1999 graduated with highest honors, became a licensed professional counselor, and a nationally certified counselor.  Her specialization was grief and loss. Her professional work has touched the lives of many and her book Loss and Growth: The Grief Spiral has received wide acceptance and use. 

Her personal life, as a spiritual person and medium, opened her to spirit communication. Nearly 26 years of those afterlife communications form the foundation of a spiritual approach known as Spiritual Persistence which emphasizes the unity of all existence, the holistic nature of spirit, and the promise of essential good amid infinite potential. 

Elissa is survived by her mother Hazel and a brother Richard, both of Long Island; her husband Randy; three bonus daughters: Elizabeth McCann Mackay (David); Lee Lehman-Becker (James Larsson); Suki Lucier (John), and four grandchildren.

The Rev. Howard Box

The Rev. Howard Box died on April 15, 2021 at the age of 94.

Howard is survived by his wife of 68 years, Jean Newton Box; daughters: Ruth Westfall, and Carol Box and her husband, Alessandro Nicita; son Gordon Box and his partner, Betsy Williams; as well as his grandchildren: Robert Westfall, and Sofia and Mateo Nicita.

A memorial service will be held later with interment in the Oak Ridge Unitarian Universalist Church Memorial Garden.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations honoring Rev. Box can be made to the Oak Ridge Unitarian Universalist Church <http://www.oruuc.org/>, 809 Oak Ridge Turnpike, Oak Ridge, TN 37830. UURMaPA will contribute $50 to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.

Notes of condolence may be written here <https://www.jacksonfuneralservices.com/obituary/HOWARD-BOX>.

A more complete obituary will follow.

Gary Leonard Wyke

Gary Wyke

Gary Leonard Wyke, spouse of the Reverend Elizabeth Greene, died 10 April 2021, in Boise Idaho. He was born on 8 July 1941, in Hanford, California, and spent his childhood there.

After high school, he headed east to attend the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, Maryland, where his personal values of integrity, loyalty, and fairness were reinforced. However, he found the curriculum a poor match for his interests and strengths. Gary returned to California, fulfilling his military obligations as a Naval Reservist. 

In that period Gary received a B.A. in English from the University of California in Berkeley, then worked six years as a book buyer at Macy’s Department store in San Francisco. Concluding that retail was not the path for him, he returned to Cal and got Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in Forestry. He retired from work with the Bureau of Land Management in Boise after over 30 years of service.

He and Janet Evans were married in 1964. Sons Andrew and Evan opened for Gary a deep and abiding well of love for family. Indeed love for family was one of his defining characteristics. His sons grew up, married, and had children of their own, who were absolutely the apples of their “Bumpa’s” eye.

Even with his deep commitment and joy in family, he also turned outward in a commitment to making the world better. He served as President of his church, the Boise Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. He was a much-respected tutor at Learning Lab. He coordinated the Farmers’ Market table, where people with EMT cards could receive tokens for fresh vegetables. His quiet, low-key sense of humor delighted all who knew and loved him.

In 2013, Jan and Gary’s marriage dissolved, amiably and with a continuing commitment to their kids and grandkids. He found that his 30+ year friendship with Elizabeth Greene had deepened into an excellent foundation for a life together, and they made the happy decision to marry. Gary and Elizabeth traveled many places, laughed a lot, read poetry to each other, spent fun times with family, and thanked their Higher Powers for the late-life gift of each other.

Gary is survived by his wife, Elizabeth; son Andy, wife Erin and daughter Dylan; son Evan, wife Nicole and sons Sullivan, Benson and Oliver; sister Joyce McKern; nieces and nephews.

Mary Mullarkey

Mary Mullarkey

Mary Mullarkey, spouse of Reverend Tom Korman, died 31 March 2021, after a long and very public struggle with multiple sclerosis. Mary was born in New London, Wisconsin on 28 September 1943. She attended public and parochial schools there, and then St Norbert College, where she earned a degree in math in 1965. She earned her law degree from Harvard University in 1968 and then went to work for the U.S. Department of the Interior, in its equal opportunity section. 

In Washington, she met Thomas E Korson and they married. In 1973 they decided to move to Denver for two years. However, after two years with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, Mary was hired to work in the Colorado Attorney General’s office, concentrating on appellate practice. Later, she became the state’s Solicitor General, and then a legal counsel to Governor Richard Lamm.

In 1987, Governor Roy Romer appointed Mary to the Colorado Supreme Court, only the second woman chosen to serve there. In 1998, her peers elected her to serve as their Chief Justice. She remained in that position until she retired in 2010. Her multiple sclerosis had been diagnosed in 1994, and she required a walker in her later years, but the disease never impacted her mind or kept her from fulfilling her duties. While many of her legal decisions are noteworthy, she is also recognized for her leadership in changing the way the courts operated — providing professional interpreters, and setting up child care for parents who were tied up in the legal system.

And at Tom’s ordination by the First Unitarian Church of Denver on 6 October 1996, Mary and her piano teacher played a duet.

Mary Mullarkey

Mary is survived by Tom Korson, her spouse of nearly 50 years; their son, Dr. Andrew Korson; daughter in law Emily Terhune Korson; granddaughters Anika and Avery Korson; four brothers; and numerous nephews, nieces, and cousins.

Contributions may be made to Cure d’Ars Catholic Church, 4701 Martin Luther King Jr. Boulevard, Denver, CO 80207; The Colorado Judicial Institute, Box 118, Broomfield, CO 80038; The Colorado Lawyers Committee, 401 Lawrence St., Suite 2300, Denver, CO 80202; or The Multiple Sclerosis Society, Colorado-Wyoming Branch, 900 Broadway, 2nd Floor, Denver, CO 80209.

The Rev. Cynthia A. Frado

The Rev. Cynthia A. Frado died on March 28, 2021, at the age of 67.

Cynthia was the cherished wife of James Walker of Hadley, MA. She is survived by her daughter Eve Chetwynd and her partner Jason Hendricks of Orange, CT; son Alexander Chetwynd and his partner Jennifer Bisceglia of Worcester; sister Kathleen (Frado) Sousa and her husband William of Seekonk; sister-in-law Chris (Hall) Frado of Winchester, NH; stepson Jonathan Walker and his wife Catherine of Lebanon, CT; stepdaughter Carolyn Taylor and her husband Matthew of Amherst; adopted daughter Stephanie Jordao; eight loving grandchildren; Arielle, Hayden, Christian, Jack, Ella, Piper, Elin, and August; and several nieces and nephews. Cindy was predeceased by her sister Madeline Jeffries and brother John Frado.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Cancer Center at Boston’s Children’s Hospital in memory of Rev. Cynthia Frado. UURMaPA will contribute $50 to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.

Her funeral service will be held virtually Friday, April 9, at 5:00 p.m. Contact the Funeral Home listed below for link to service.

Notes of condolences may be sent to the family of the Rev. Cynthia Frado care of the Pickering and Son Westborough Funeral Home, 62 West Main St., Westborough, MA 01581.

A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed.

The Rev. Dr. William “Bill” E. Alberts

Bill Alberts
Bill Alberts

The Reverend Bill Alberts—parish minister, civil rights activist, and prolific political journalist, who moved to UU affiliation after expulsion from United Methodist ministry—died on 22 March 2021 in Canton, Massachusetts, aged 941⁄2.

Mr. Alberts served United Methodist churches in MA and PA from 1949–73, but was always attracted to UU justice commitments and regularly attended meetings of a nearby UUMA chapter.

In 1973, two months after conducting a marriage ceremony for two male members of the Old West Church in Boston, the Rev’d Mr. Alberts was forcibly retired from United Methodist ministry. His ensuing landmark lawsuit, detailed in his booklet, The Minister Who Could Not Be “Preyed” Away (1987), was financially supported by the UUA’s Ministry Department, under the direction of the Rev’d David Pohl, who recalls Bill as “a warm, energetic, and devoted voice of compassion and courage.”

William Edward Alberts was born on 26 October 1926 in Williamsport, Pennsylvania, to Ralph Stanford Alberts and Nellie (Marks) Alberts. After US Navy service (1944–46), he was graduated with a B.A. in sociology from Lycoming College PA in 1951, earned his M.Div. from Westminster (now Wesley) Theological Seminary in Washington DC in 1954, and received his Ph.D. in psychology and pastoral counseling from Boston University in 1961.

After the abrupt termination of his Methodist ministry and several years of work in journalism and teaching, the Rev’d Mr. Alberts was lured back to parish ministry with a 1978 call to Boston’s Community Church, founded in 1920 as a “peace and justice” congregation by Universalist minister and academic Clarence Skinner. Bill’s sermons there are remembered as “gems of lovingly radical rebellious thought translated into action.” He received preliminary and final ministerial fellowship with the UUA in 1981 and 1984, respectively.

Bill Alberts
Bill Alberts

Leaving his parish call after 13 years, Bill moved to full-time chaplaincy at Boston Medical Center in 1992. His nearly 20-year tenure there inspired his book, A Hospital Chaplain at the Crossroads of Humanity (2012).

Bill is survived by his spouse of 45 years, Eva Young Alberts and their daughter, Amy Warren; three daughters, Susan Cook, Jeanne Paz, and LouAnn Meli, and a son, Jeffrey Alberts from his first marriage to Doris Schmaus.

A memorial service was scheduled at Boston’s Arlington St. Church for 23 October 2021. Donations are encouraged to the Asian American Civic Assoc. or to CounterPunch (an on-line political journal, to which Bill was a regular contributor). Notes of condolence may be sent to Eva Young Alberts, 25 Algonquin Road, Canton MA 02021.

The Rev. Richard A. Kellaway

The Rev. Richard A. Kellaway died on March 21, 2021 at the age of 86.

Richard is survived by his children: Ronald Kellaway and Andrea Kellaway; his grandchildren: Ethan Kellaway and Angela Stites; and his former wife Jean Dickinson Kellaway. He was the oldest brother of John Kellaway, Joanne Kellaway, Susan Creeden, the late Ken Kellaway and the late Patricia Kellaway. He was preceded by his parents: Arthur K. and Bertha (Sturtevant) Kellaway.

A memorial service was planned for October 23, 2021 at 2:00 pm at the First Parish Church in Dorchester, Massachusetts. The service will be in person and broadcast on Zoom.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the charity of one’s own choosing. UURMaPA will contribute $50 to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.

Notes of condolences may be sent to John Kellaway, 27 Gulf Rd., Derry, NH 03038.

A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed.

The Rev. Dr. Elizabeth “Liz” M. Strong

Liz Strong
Liz Strong

The Reverend Dr. Elizabeth Strong—impassioned religious educator, pastoral counselor, parish minister, and lifelong disciple and scholar of Universalism—died on 20 March 2021, aged 80-3⁄4.

In UU circles Liz Strong was widely known for her work in curriculum development, her personal presence with irrepressible energy, and her many awards. Ministerial colleagues Carol Taylor and Carol Haag wrote that with Liz’s death “Unitarian Universalism and liberal religious education lost a shining star.”

Elizabeth May Strong was born a third generation Universalist to Ashley Walter Strong and Marie Elizabeth Miller Strong on 17 June 1940 in Cooperstown, New York. Their church was central to family life. When Liz was asked—at age eight—what she believed, her answer was quick: “I believe God is love. Jesus is a teacher and friend. People are inherently good. There is truth I know and more that I will know. Service is required of me to live my faith, and in the end all will be well.” At age 13 she began teaching church school at the Old Stone Universalist Church in Schuyler Lake NY.

Liz Strong
Liz Strong

Liz earned a B.A. in liberal arts from Syracuse University (NY) in 1962. In the 1970s both her parents died, her marriage failed, and she underwent extensive back surgery, with a neck-to-hips body cast. Amid these losses and challenges, the indomitable Ms. Strong, now a single working mother of four children, completed her M.S. degree in elementary education and was named Director of Religious Education at Rochester’s First Unitarian Church. She was centrally active with others in developing the ordination track by which the UUA acknowledged a Ministry of Religious Education. In October 1983 she was ordained by her Rochester congregation and forthwith called as Minister of Religious Education.

Liz Strong
Liz Strong

In 1988, the Rev’d Ms. Strong accepted a call to the May Memorial UU Society in Syracuse (NY) as Minister of Religious Education. She completed a D.Min. program at Meadville Lombard in 2000. In 2001 she left May Memorial for a seven-year stint as RE Program Consultant for the Massachusetts Bay District. Liz took formal retirement from full-time work in 2008 but went on to her first and only service in parish ministry (2008–2013) as a part-time consulting minister to the First Parish Church of Ashby UU (MA), where she was named minister emerita in 2013 and continued to preach frequently as a pulpit guest into the final years of her life.

At her death Liz was survived by brother John Strong, sister Barbara Strong Vertucci, sons David and Douglas Taylor, daughters Shari TaylorLascano and Kathleen Taylor-Wallen, ten grandchildren, and many cousins, nieces, and nephews.

An online memorial service was held on 8 May 2021. Memorial donations are encouraged to Planned Parenthood, or to the UUA. Notes of condolence may be sent to: Rev. Douglas Taylor, 19 Hodge Ave, Binghamton NY 13901.