The Rev. Manuel R. Holland

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The Rev. Manuel R. Holland died on August 2, 2022, at the age of 92.

Manuel was born on May 9, 1930, in Hazleton PA to Raleigh Lee Roy Holland and Pearl Shook Holland. He spent his early childhood in Pennsylvania, North Carolina, and California. When he was nineteen, he received his local preacher’s license from the Methodist church and later had a Methodist charge consisting of four small rural churches in western North Carolina. For a year and a half (1949–1951), Manuel assumed responsibility for the complete programs of these churches, preached an average of three times a Sunday, conducted funerals, marriages, and baptisms as needs arose among the parishioners, and at the same time carried a full course at college.

Subsequently, Manuel served as a Youth Counselor for six months at the Congregational Unitarian Church, Littleton MA, working with Rev. Palmer Clarke. Since then, his pulpit experience changed. Theologically, he could no longer agree with the Methodist Church; he had found a spirit of freedom, a dedication to truth, and a concern for the welfare of humankind in the Unitarian Church. He soon realized that the kind of ministry he wished to pursue would be most meaningful and successful among the Unitarians.

In 1951, Manuel left for the Army. After receiving an honorable discharge in 1954, he went to college graduating with two degrees in 1960: a Bachelor of Arts with a major in Sociology of Religion from Boston University, MA, and a Bachelor of Divinity from Tufts University, MA.

Rev. Holland was ordained by the First Parish Unitarian, Groton MA on June 17, 1956. His tenure at First Parish (1955–1960) marked increased Sunday morning service attendance and growth in the religious programs. With the new facilities of the Youth Center and the installation of a library and bookstore, excellent education programs were developed. The new youth choir was added to the worship service. 

In 1960, Rev. Holland accepted a call from the First Parish in Framingham MA where he would serve until 1966. He played the most active role in the support, growth, proliferation, and maturation of the congregation. Under his leadership, a series of adult courses were offered, and the church school enrollment increased. People looked to the church for leadership in Education, Social Action, and Service.

From 1966 to 1970, Rev. Holland served as the first District Executive of the Thomas Jefferson District of the Unitarian Universalist Association. These years were formative in establishing the identity and functional character of the district of 47 churches and fellowships. His responsibilities included extension ministry, ministerial settlements, religious education, fundraising, communication media liaison, pulpit supply, and many others. 

Thereafter, Rev. Holland served the UU Church of Greensboro, Jamestown NC (1971–1973); the UU Fellowship of Winston-Salem NC (1973–1974); and the UU Congregation of the Lowcountry, SC (1981–1986). His ministry and endeavor made churches a dynamic force in the community, as he was passionate about social justice and strove to uplift the oppressed, impoverished, and voiceless. He helped strengthen the moral and spiritual needs of the members of the parish and community. His genuine and dynamic concern for the welfare and well-being of his fellow human beings made him one of the truly outstanding ministers. 

In 1986, the Lowcountry congregation honored Rev. Holland as their minister emeritus. His last message to the congregation and the community asked that we love one another, for, in the end that is all we have.

Rev. Holland’s integrity, industry, loyalty, devotion, and dedication to the UU movement were of the highest caliber. He was the winner of the Clarence R. Skinner award (1958) for the best sermon that most expressed the social implications of Universalist principles. Furthermore, Rev. Holland took an active role in the Central Massachusetts District of UU Churches serving as Vice President and Chairman of Denominational Affairs. He was a member of the UU Committee on Camps and Conferences and chaired the UUA Committee on Lay Leadership. 

He also served on the board of the Church of the Larger Fellowship (1958–1962); was Chairman of the Star Island Religious Education Institute (1961) and Southern N.E. Social Relations Committee (1961–1962). From 1962 to 1965, he provided his services as Vice President of the Central Massachusetts District, and as Chairman of the Southeast UU Summer Institute in 1968.

In Framingham MA, Manuel served as Vice President of the Framingham Ministers Association, as a founding member and Director of the Framingham Fair Housing Practices Committee, and as a member of the Framingham Chapter. He was an executive committee member of the Framingham-Ashland United Fund (1962–1966).

He had a broad range of interests, some of which included woodworking, biking, camping, and graphic arts.  He also had several of his works published including, “If We Had Given a Damn” (Universalist Leader, Sept. 1959) and the UUA Pamphlet, “Salvation From What?”

Manuel is survived by his stepson David Lowe; his granddaughter, Jessica Lowe; and his three children from a previous marriage: Charles Holland, Elizabeth Holland, and Robert Holland. He was preceded in death by his wife of 51 years, Olive Holland.

A memorial service was held on Sunday, August 7, 2022, at the UU Congregation of the Lowcountry, 110 Malphrus Rd, Bluffton, SC 29910. Memorial donations can be made to The International Rescue Committee, P.O. Box 6068, Albert Lea, MN 56007-9847, or Feeding America. Notes of condolences can be sent HERE.

Elizabeth Gartner Maloney

Betty Maloney died Feb. 2, 2022 when, although fully vaccinated, she succumbed to COVID. She was the widow of Rev. Thomas J. Maloney.

She was born June 8, 1923, in Boston MA, to Walter and Elizabeth (Zepfler) Gartner. She attended Needham schools. Betty’s childhood summers were spent at her grandfather’s beach cottage in Minot on Boston’s south shore. Her fondest memories later in life were of Minot. She was a graduate of Middlebury College VT, with a major in economics; received an M.A. in Economics from Columbia University; and later an M.A. in Education from Southern Illinois University.

She married fellow Needham High graduate Thomas J. Maloney in 1948, a man possessed with Wanderlust. Tom completed degrees from Northeastern; the University of Colorado in Boulder; a Divinity degree from Harvard; and a PhD in Sociology/Anthropology from Washington University in St. Louis. In the year that Tom and Betty spent in Boulder, they became active in the Unitarian Fellowship (the first fellowship chartered by the American Unitarian Association) and welcomed their first daughter, Susan. Daughter Greta was born in Massachusetts; Lisa, was born in Davenport IA; and son Thomas Jefferson was born in Quincy IL.

Tom served ministries in Davenport IA; Quincy IL; and Boulder CO. He also taught Anthropology and sociology in Boulder; in Las Vegas NM; at Southern Illinois University; and started the Anthropology Dept. at Ripon College WI.

In Boulder, beyond raising four children, Betty was active in the League of Women Voters, Shares In the Future (anti-nuclear weapons), and library services to Boulder County. She helped obtain funding for a bookmobile and volunteered with the librarian. She was president of the League of Women Voters. In 1967 the family moved to Ripon, WI, where Betty was a fifth- grade teacher. In Edwardsville IL, she worked as a reading tutor.

In Edwardsville Betty really came into her own in community service: the Human Relations Commission, the Edwardsville Township Community Improvements Corporation, and the Historic Preservation Commission. Maloney counted the months of her service in Edwardsville with bricks from demolished buildings. “Oh, dear,” she would say, “this was a three brick month!”

She helped to create the N.O. Nelson Historic District, the Goshen Preservation Alliance, and Friends of the Edwardsville Public Library. She administered the Community Development & Rehabilitation Fund and oversaw surplus food programs for Edwardsville Township. She worked tirelessly for passage of the Equal Rights Amendment and debated Phyllis Schlafly on the issue. She received the NAACP Award, the Women’s Award, and the Jefferson Award for Distinguished Public Service in the St. Louis area.

In 2005 her husband Tom, “the light of her life, left her.” In 2013 she moved to Balfour in Louisville to be closer to daughter Greta. In 2016, due to increasing dementia, Betty moved to The Academy at Bella Vista. In 2019 Betty lost her eyesight to glaucoma but remained engaged in the world. She was a trivia champion at Bella Vista, a lifelong gardener, an artist, and very interested in genealogy. For years she sent individually painted holiday cards and cards with pressed flowers. As family historian, she compiled numerous books on branches of her family.

Betty is survived by her sister, Louise Birkhead of Slingerlands NY; daughters, Susan Thomae (Edmundo) of Mexico City; Greta Maloney (Bob Palaich) of Boulder CO; and Lisa Maloney Hahn (Dan Maloney Hahn) of Groton NY; her son, Tom (Jeff) Maloney (Lori) of Worden IL; seven grandchildren and 14 great grandchildren.

Donations in Betty’s memory can be made to:

The League of Women Voters (https://www.coloradogives.org/LWVColorado) The Madison County Historical Society (https://madcohistory.org/joindonate) or the Poudre River Public Library (https://www.poudrelibraries.org/donate)

The New Normal: Fall 2021 Conference

Our Fall Conference was held virtually (on Zoom) on October 18-20, 2021. Recordings of the conference are being processed and may become available here when they are released. Meanwhile, here are a few details:

Our theme speaker was the Rev. Bruce Marshall on the topic “The New Normal: Adjusting to a New World,” in which he focused on both the COVID pandemic and retirement as opportunities to consider a possible New Normal.

The conference included a service of remembrance of the UURMaPA members who had died since our last conference, two odysseys (by the Rev. Charles Stephens and Kathleen Hunter), topical breakout group conversations, and opportunities for worship and fellowship.

See full conference report in the Winter 2022 Elderberries.

The conference planning team included: Barbro Hansson, Convener; Roger Rochester, Registrar; Rosemarie Smurzynski, Publicity; Dave Hunter & Kerry Mueller, Worship Co-Coordinators; Marni Harmony, Odyssey Coordinator; Johanna Nichols, Small Group Coordinator; Richard Speck, Virtual Support and Virtual Choir Director; and Anne Spatola, UURMaPA Board.   Virtual Producer: Jon Claney

Conference schedule (all times are Eastern Daylight):

Monday, October 18
1:00 – 2:30 pm    Ingathering & Small Group Check-In
4:00 – 5:00 pm    Greetings from UURMaPA Leaders & Updates on  Special Programs
5:00 – 6:00 pm    Small Breakout Groups
7:30 – 9:00 pm    Service of Remembrance

Tuesday, October 19
1:00- 2:30 pm     Theme Presentation, Rev. Bruce Marshall
4:00 – 6:00 pm    Theme Exploration continues
7:30 – 9:00 pm    Odyssey Presentation

Wednesday, October 20
1:00 – 2:30 pm Breakout Groups: Topics of Interest
4:00 – 4:30 pm Greetings from the UUMA
4:30 – 6:00 pm Odyssey Presentation
7:30 – 9:00 pm Greetings from the UUA, UURMaPA at Your Service, Closing Worship

The Rev. Gail A. Berger

The Rev. Gail A. Berger died on June 28, 2021, at the age of 67.

Gail is survived by her sister, Kathy Ockenfels, and partner, Ernie Arellano; her brother, Don Berger, and his wife, Cynthia Moss; her niece, Natalie; and nephews, Jackson and Peter Berger; as well as a great group of very special friends.

A celebration of her life will be held by her friends and family on Saturday, October 23, 2021, in her recent retirement community in Durham, North Carolina. 

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Habitat for Humanity International, the Massachusetts Coalition for the Homeless, or the Northeast Animal Shelter of Salem, Massachusetts. UURMaPA will contribute $50 to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.

A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed. 

Phyllis Hubbell — 2021

Phyllis Hubbell

The Board of the Unitarian Universalist Retired Ministers and Partners Association names the Reverend Phyllis L. Hubbell the 2021 Unsung UURMaPAn in recognition of her visionary launching, guiding and following through with a Rainbow History project for UURMaPA timed on the 50th Anniversary of the Stonewall resistance.

Phyllis conceived of the idea of honoring and celebrating our Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans and Queer UU leaders, and our institutional struggles for justice.

She took on fundraising and Conference planning that yielded two outstanding conferences in 2019. Ambitious to preserve this history as more than conference conversations, Phyllis pressed on patiently and enthusiastically to transcribe and edit recorded talks, and to ensure that they are archived at Andover-Harvard Library. A website was made, where materials were contributed by many and made available. A book has been launched from this Rainbow History project, which is being edited by Diana McLean and will come from Skinner House. Phyllis worked with the late Dorothy Emerson, and with the late Judy Welles, and many volunteers to move the work forward.

With patience and good humor, Phyllis continues to work on the project, which has had a very long aftermath of collecting and editing and securing permissions for use of recorded materials. In addition, Phyllis served on the Board as Vice President, and showed her resilience when she had to pivot last June to create our first entirely online GA Annual gathering. Phyllis has been a stalwart participant in UURMaPA programs since her retirement from Full Time ministry. She and John Manwell continue to provide part-time congregational ministry as clergy partners, while they live in Gaithersburg Maryland.

Awarded on April 28, 2021 

Fall Conference 2020 — Breakdown/Breakthrough

Our Fall 2020 Conference was held virtually in six separate sessions on October 12-14. The Rev. Fred Small was our theme presenter on the topic Breakdown/Breakthrough that inspired actions to heal the world. There’s more on his presentation in our newsletter, Elderberries (“Climate Activism,” pgs. 8-9). Sessions included a welcome and virtual gathering and opening worship, a memorial service led by the Revs. Tom and Carolyn Owen Towle, an odyssey delivered by the Revs. Rose Edington and Mel Hoover, and a business session as well as the theme presentation and a variety of thematic workshop sessions.

Over 140 people participated in the virtual conference, reaching more than our typical in-person gatherings. This very successful event was organized by a planning team led by the Rev. Barbro Hansson with the Rev. Charles Stephens and Allison Stephens assisting. The music and worship provided much healing in these very challenging times and the workshops were insightful and enriching.

Pre-GA UURMaPA Gathering — June 18, 2020

UURMaPA invites all recently retired ministers and their partners and existing UURMaPA members to a pre-General Assembly gathering on Zoom on June 18, 2020, from 1:00 to 2:00 pm EDT. Preregistration is required (see below).

There will be time for introductions to your colleagues, conversation and an overview of UURMaPA.  Special guests will speak briefly about resources available to retirees from the UUA Department of Ministries and Faith Development and the Office of Church Staff Finances.

In a typical year, this would be a luncheon during GA. A highlight each year at this meeting is the presentation of the Creative Sageing Award to a retiree in recognition of outstanding service and creativity in pursuing new ventures after retirement.  For the first time this year, we have two unrelated recipients, former Director of the Department of Ministry and current President of the Board of the Society for Ministerial Relief, the Rev. David Pohl and renowned former chemist and Deputy General Counsel of the Massachusetts Department of Environmental Protection Esther Hopkins who continues to be active in her church and community.

To preregister and obtain the Zoom link, contact Phyllis Hubbell, Vice President, by Friday, June 10. Please include your name and email. There is no charge. Phyllis will respond with additonal information and the Zoom link.

Creative Sageing Award for 2010 — Peter and Eleanor Richardson

Eleanor and Peter Richardson

Eleanor and Peter Richardson

The Rev. Peter and Eleanor Richardson retired young in 2002  — he was 62 and she was 55. He had been given an old family house on the coast of Maine, where he built a library that doubled its size, while Eleanor, a retired organ builder, removed and restored all the windows in the 18th century barn. They later replaced the barn roof and installed solar panels.

By 2010, Peter published his fourth book, Sunday Meditations: for Liberal Religious Worship, and Eleanor published her third, Mechanic Street: Uncovering the History of a Maine Neighborhood. They used the UU Sage-ing honorarium for a research trip to Portland, ME.

Eleanor served on the UURMaPA Board as Elderberries editor for 4 years, on the local church Board, and on the Board of the Rockland Historical Society. She ran for UUA Trustee in 2005. In 2008 she purchased and ran a small rental house in Rockland.

Peter presented the Minns Lectures in 2005. He was secretary of the US IARF Chapter and President of Maine Association for Psychological Type. IARF took him to India twice, South Korea and China. Together Peter and Eleanor attended a partner church conference in the Czech Republic in 2001 (Eleanor learned some Czech for the occasion). They chaired the UURMaPA Pan South conference in Fort Myers, FL, for about 5 years. Eleanor played the piano for chapel services at many UURMAPA conferences.

Meanwhile, they were blessed with 13 grandchildren, which kept them busy mailing off birthday presents and hosting family gatherings in the old barn. Peter observes, “Also, my face is wrinkled and misshapen enough to maybe look sage-like.”

Written by Eleanor and Peter Richardson, August 2019.