
The Rev. Barbara J. Carlson died on January 28, 2025, at the age of 90 (1934-2025).
Barbara was born on April 17, 1934, in East Chicago IN to Russell Theodore Carlson, Sr., and Lova Kleckner Carlson. She attended North Central College in Naperville IL, graduating cum laude in 1956 with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Sociology. She continued her education at Louisiana State University, earning a Master’s degree in Social Work in 1966. Barbara spent several years working as a social worker specializing in Child and Family welfare and teaching at the university level before answering her call to ministry.
In the 1970s, she discovered Unitarian Universalism—a serendipitous occasion that changed, enriched, and revolutionized her life. In 1978, she became a member of the Unitarian Church of Baton Rouge LA. She served the church in numerous roles, including Chair of the Membership Committee, member of the Ministerial Relations Committee, Delegate to the General Assembly, and Church President. During her years of service, she actively contributed to the congregation’s growth and vitality. It was in Baton Rouge that Barbara first felt the call to ministry. As she participated in social activities and committee work, she experienced the warmth of a caring community, and the delight of developing friendships with UUs of different ages, backgrounds, and theological positions. This transformative experience set her on the path to ministry where she sought to create a beloved community, nurture souls, and foster peace and justice in larger communities. In 1990, she received her Master of Divinity from Starr King School for the Ministry.
The Rev. Carlson was ordained on May 2, 1992, by the First Unitarian Church of Cleveland OH where she served as an associate minister from 1990–1993. Under her leadership, the Religious Education program flourished, growing both in size and depth to become one of the church’s strongest offerings. She worked closely with the committee members and helped develop a comprehensive adult education program that addressed a wide range of interests across the congregation. The Rev. Carlson ministered in a very caring and loving way and played a vital role in the church’s healing process. Her guidance and positive influence helped strengthen the church laying a foundation for a better future.
In 1993, she accepted a call from the UU Church of Bloomington IN. She served the Bloomington church until her retirement in 2005. Under her leadership, the order of service became an art form—a more consistent, organic expression of worship, seamlessly integrating music, readings, and other spiritual elements. Her ministry was characterized by her spiritual guidance, her ability to foster a sense of community within both the congregation and the larger Bloomington area, and her steady leadership during times of dynamic change. She also created one of the earliest examples of co-ministry (not by married spouses), inviting both the Rev. Mary Ann Macklin and the Rev. Bill Breeden to join her in a triumvirate co-ministry team. Upon her retirement in 2005, the church honored her as their minister emerita.
The Rev. Carlson had an excellent capacity to relate to individuals and groups, marked by her sensitivity to the feelings and behavior of others. She could empathize with others without losing a sense of her own identity and her creativity in building human relationships. Beyond her ministry, she demonstrated outstanding concern and involvement in community issues and provided leadership in social action. She served as chair of the Committee on Personnel and Work Incentive for the Louisiana Child Protection Task Force. She contributed as a member of the River Region Mental Health Review Team.
Barbara had a wide range of passions and interests that informed her ministry and personal life. She was devoted to ecological issues and the future well-being of our planet. Her interests included the arts (visual, music, dance, theatre, literature, drama) and travel.
Barbara is survived by her husband John Crosby; daughters Laurel C. Roberts (Jim) and Dawn C. Ross; as well as her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Two memorial services were planned, one in Baton Rouge LA, and the other in Bloomington IN.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Unitarian Church of Baton Rouge, 8470 Goodwood Blvd, Baton Rouge LA 70806; or the Unitarian Universalist Church of Bloomington, 2120 N. Fee Lane, Bloomington IN 47408. UURMaPA contributed to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.
Notes of condolence may be sent to:
- John Crosby, 800 Bell Trace Circle #257, Bloomington IN 47408
- Laurel and Jim Roberts, 10635 Oakley Trace Dr. Baton Rouge LA 70809
- Dawn Ross, 9324 Pine Cone Court, Baton Rouge LA 70809








