The Rev. Rosemarie Carnarius, whose life was defined early on by a fierce devotion to human justice and political freedom, died on 10 October 2015, aged 76.
Rosemarie was born in Leipzig, Germany, on 27 November 1938 to Karl Schnabel and Hilda Gertrud Barth. After escaping to West Germany at age 17, she met and married Roderick Carnarius, with whom she relocated to the U.S. in 1960. As she was happily raising their two children, she became active in the UU congregation of Trenton, New Jersey. She used her spare time to read voraciously in history, philosophy, and world religions and to work with the elderly in a Quaker nursing home. All these, she wrote, “gave me many opportunities to see more compassionately into the heart of humanity.”
In 1984, divorced and with her children grown, Rosemarie turned her eyes to the American Southwest, whose special beauty had long captured her imagination. In the Tucson UU church she served as the DRE for two and a half years. She entered Starr King School for the Ministry, earning her M.Div. in 1991.
Ms. Carnarius was ordained by the Unitarian Church of the Monterey Peninsula (Carmel, Calif.) in 1992. She briefly served UU churches in Wyoming and New Mexico before complications from hip surgery curtailed her ministerial activity. Meanwhile, she had met Aston Bloom, who would become her soulmate and life partner for nearly twenty years. They moved back to Tucson and at her old church, Rosemarie served as Minister in Association (1999-2002) and was able to assume limited professional work.
Rosemarie is remembered by Aston as “constantly thinking of others, even when she was dying.” Aston recalled a moment when Rosemarie, just two weeks before her death, noticed that Aston hadn’t been eating well and sat her down to prepare a week’s worth of sample menus. Aston mused, “She never realized how special she was… I was her caregiver, and she was mine.”
Besides her long-time life partner, Aston Bloom, Rosemarie is survived by her sister Karin, children Michael and Patricia, five grandchildren, multiple nephews, nieces, and other relatives in Germany as wIl as dear friends in both the United States and abroad.
A memorial service was conducted by the Rev. Diane Dowgiert on November 21, 2015, at the UU Church of Tucson. Memorial donations are encouraged to ANERA (American Near East Refugee Aid), 1111 14th St. NW, #400, Washington, DC 22225. Condolences may be sent to Ms. Aston Bloom, 88 S. London Station Road, Tucson, AZ 85748.