Donald Luke Chery, Jr., died June 28, 2025, in his home at 5202 Bradley Blvd., Bethesda, surrounded by family and friends.
Don was born Sept. 16, 1937, in Denver CO to Donald L. Chery, Sr. and Beth Marcellus Chamberlain Chery. He grew up in Trinidad CO, and later in Tucson AZ. His BA degree was from the University of Arizona in Tucson and his PhD was from Utah State University in Logan.
He married his first wife, Marsha Parkinson, Nov. 20, 1963. They were divorced in 1976. He married his second wife, Rev. Virginia Luke, Sept. 17, 1995. Together they built their dream house on Bradley Boulevard.
Don was a hydrologist by training and a strong social justice advocate his entire life. He worked for the U.S. Department of Agriculture in water resources in Tucson and in Athens GA. Later he worked for Dames and Moore in Washington DC, and concluded his engineering career with the U.S. Nuclear Regulatory Commission, with 36 years of government service.
While in Tucson, Don was a member of the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) Board, where a fellow member was a Unitarian Universalist minister. Later, in Athens, Don joined the UU Congregation and three years later was the chair of their board.
When he moved to Bethesda MD in 1980, he became a member of River Road UU Congregation (RRUUC). There he was on the board; was one of the planners for their Sunday forum called CC&C; was a youth advisor who took 40 youth in 1999 to The Hague Peace Conference, and youth delegations on immersion experiences to El Salvador for 17 years. He was a leader in the social justice programs at RRUUC, especially with the Latin America Taskforce. He was on the board of the UU Legislative Ministry of Maryland and a member of the UU Social Justice Immigration Steering Committee. He was also a member of the UUA President’s Council.
Don has been active in the Maryland and U.S. Democratic parties. During elections, his yard has been full of signs supporting Democratic candidates. He often lobbied representatives and their staff at the Capitol. He also was a strong alumnae supporter of Utah State University, supporting its scholarship program.
He will be greatly missed by family and friends. One of his colleagues from the CoCoDA (Companion Community Development Alternatives) has said, “His life made deep and lasting impacts for good in this world.”
He left a loving wife Rev. Virginia Luke; son Anthony Chery; brother Allen Chery; sister Pamela Chery; grandchildren Nicholas Pryplesh, Alexander Chery, Alexandra Pryplesh and Morgan Chery, as well as many friends.
Nancy Schwartz Young died on June 23, 2025 at the age of 84 (1941-2025). She is survived by her husband, the Rev. Mike Young; their children Caprice, Joshua, and Daniel; and five grandchildren. A memorial service was held on July 18, 2025 at the Unitarian Universalist Church in Studio City CA.
UURMaPA will contribute to the UUA’s Ministerial Relief Fund, which provides financial aid to ministers and partners.
A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed. The obituary will be published in an upcoming issue of Elderberries, and will be available on the UURMaPA website. If any readers would wish to contribute information or reminiscences, we would welcome them. Please send them to UURMaPA’s partner obituary editor, Eleanor Richardson, grandmoot@aol.com
The Rev. Dr. Richard F. Boeke died on May 25, 2025, at the age of 94 (1931-2025).
Richard is survived by his wife of 60 years Johanna Boeke, his daughters Elinore Boeke and Diana Boeke (Amir), and his grandchildren Zachary, Juliana, and Alex.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the International Association for Religious Freedom. UURMaPA will contribute to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.
Notes of condolence can be sent to Diana Boake via email at didye@duck.com or mailed to Johanna Boeke at Goodwin House, 4800 Fillmore Ave., Apt. 714, Alexandria VA 22311.
A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed. It will be published in an upcoming issue of Elderberries and posted on the UURMaPA website.If any readers would wish to contribute information or reminiscences, we would welcome them. Please send them to UURMaPA’s clergy obituary editor, Rev. Jay Atkinson – jayatk40@gmail.com.
Gladys Ferger Howard died on May 23, 2025, at the age of 78 (1946-2025). She is survived by her husband, the Rev. Mitchell Gwilym Howard, her son Theodore Howard, and sisters Kathy and Carol. A memorial service will be held on September 6, 2025 at 2:00 PM, at the UU Congregation of Whidbey Island WA.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Whidbey Island, 20103 State Route 525, Freeland WA, 98249 or to Heifer International, P.O. Box 8058, Little Rock AR, 72203. UURMaPA will contribute in her memory to the UU Church of Whidbey Island.
Notes of condolence can be sent to mgh63bhss@gmail.com or to: Rev. Mitch Howard, 1837 Schooner Lane, Oak Harbor WA 98277
A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed. The obituary will be published in an upcoming issue of Elderberries, and will be available on the UURMaPA website. If any readers would wish to contribute information or reminiscences, we would welcome them. Please send them to UURMaPA’s partner obituary editor, Eleanor Richardson, grandmoot@aol.com
The Rev. Dr. Joyce Harkleroad Smith died on May 23, 2025, at the age of 96 (1928-2025).
Joyce was born on September 13, 1928, to William and Pearl Harkleroad. She was raised in Salina and Whitewater KS, in a family of modest means, and endured the challenges of the Great Depression and World War II. In 1950, she earned a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science from the University of Kansas. Shortly thereafter, she married Dr. Vernon L. Smith, an experimental economist. While raising their three children, Joyce pursued a call to the ministry. She earned a Bachelor of Divinity in 1967 and later a Doctor of Divinity degree in 1984, both from Meadville Lombard Theological School.
The Rev. Dr. Smith was ordained to the UU ministry on November 5, 1967. She served her first ministry at the First Parish in Sherborn MA, from 1967–1972. In 1974, she accepted a call from the River Road UU Congregation in Bethesda MD, where she would serve until 1980. From 1980 to 1985, she was the director of Congregational and Ministerial Services at the UUA. She supported clergy and lay leaders during a pivotal time in the denomination’s development. In 1985, she returned to the parish and served the Fourth Universalist Society in the City of New York NY until 1987.
Following that, she was drawn to interim ministry and provided her services to the following congregations: the First Parish in Waltham MA (1987–1988); the UU Congregation of Atlanta GA (1988–1989); the UU Congregation in Stamford CT (1989–1990); the First Parish UU of Arlington MA (1990–1991); and the First Unitarian Church, Portland OR (1991–1992). She retired from her active ministry in 1992 but continued her services. From 1997–2006, she was an affiliated minister at the Valley UU Congregation in Chandler AZ. She also served part-time at various fellowships in Flagstaff and Glendale AZ, as well as offered a short-term ministry in Adelaide, Australia. Through her parish and interim roles, she nurtured congregations through growth, transition, and transformation. She helped expand the visibility and leadership of women in ministry.
The Rev. Dr. Smith was a powerful preacher. She delivered the Berry Street Essay at Palm Springs General Assembly in 1988 and later gave a sermon at the Service of the Living Tradition.
For the past nineteen years, she lived at a senior living community in Kansas City, where she remained active and engaged. She participated in many on-campus activities, starred in several plays, and worked at the volunteer tax help site.Joyce is survived by her children Deborah Emielita, Eric Smith, and Torrie Smith; her grandson Taliesen Graff; and her ex-husband Vernon Smith.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Unitarian Universalist Association, 24 Farnsworth Street, Boston, MA 02210 or Meadville Lombard Theological School, 180 N. Wabash Ave., Suite 700, Chicago IL 60601. UURMaPA will contribute to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.
Notes of condolence can be sent to Eric Smith at smith990@gmail.com or by snail mail at 2950 Dean Pkwy., Apt. 1406, Minneapolis MN 55416.
A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed. It will be published in an upcoming issue of Elderberries and posted on the UURMaPA website.If any readers would wish to contribute information or reminiscences, we would welcome them. Please send them to UURMaPA’s clergy obituary editor, Rev. Jay Atkinson – jayatk40@gmail.com.
The Rev. Dr. F. Everett “Ev” Morris died on June 21, 2025, at the age of 87 (1937-2025).
Ev is survived by his wife of twenty-five years Joan, his sons Dave and TR, his grandchild K, and Joan’s daughters Jeneen Bayer and Kira Auger.
A memorial service was held on September 12, 2025, at the Beacon Unitarian Church in New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Beacon Unitarian Church, Box 414, 407-552 Clarke Rd, Coquitlam BC V3J 0A3, or to the David Suzuki Foundation. UURMaPA will contribute to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.
A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed. It will be published in an upcoming issue of Elderberries and posted on the UURMaPA website.If any readers would wish to contribute information or reminiscences, we would welcome them. Please send them to UURMaPA’s clergy obituary editor, Rev. Jay Atkinson – jayatk40@gmail.com.
The Rev. John Rex III died on May 14, 2025, at the age of 84 (1940-2025).
John was born on May 14, 1940, in Syracuse NY. He graduated from Fox Lane School in Bedford NY, in 1958, and earned his Bachelor of Arts from Bowdoin College in Maine in 1962. After college, he joined the Peace Corps and served in Ethiopia from 1962–1964. This formative experience sparked a lifelong commitment to intercultural understanding and global engagement.
Upon returning to the United States, John earned his Master of Education from the State University at Buffalo NY, in 1968, and began his career teaching high school English in Akron NY.
In 1977, John discovered Unitarian Universalism. Drawn to its core values of reason, compassion, and justice, he became active in the faith community and served as Director of Religious Education at the UU Church of Amherst, Williamsville NY, from 1980–1985. Over time, he felt a deeper sense of calling to the UU ministry and graduated with his Master of Divinity from Starr King School for the Ministry in 1995. The Rev. Rex was ordained to the UU ministry that same year.
From 1995–1998, he served as an extension minister at the UU Fellowship in Fredericksburg VA. In 1999, he accepted a call from the Buckman Bridge UU Society in Orange Park FL, where he served until 2001. He then served the First UU Congregation of the Palm Beaches in North Palm Beach FL, from 2001–2003. During his ministry there, he strengthened the Religious Education program, launched small group ministry programs, and helped create more coordinated and cohesive worship services. The Rev. Rex’s ministry was particularly impactful in the areas of social justice, religious education, worship, and fostering congregation growth.
The Rev. Rex’s passion for cross-cultural engagement deeply shaped his ministry and his life. He lived, worked, and traveled in various parts of the world, including Ethiopia, Namibia, and India. He was devoted to supporting international Unitarian communities and advancing interfaith efforts across the globe. His thoughtful reflections on Cultural Intelligence were grounded in lived experience and guided by a belief that deeper understanding across lines of difference could transform lives and strengthen communities.
In addition to his ministry and global commitments, John enjoyed the quieter joys in life—watercolor painting, playing bridge, and listening to classical music.
John is survived by his daughter Anne (Tom), and grandchildren Gwen and Drew; his former wife Barbara; nieces Stephanie, Catherine, Mary, and Jennifer; his godson Abhimanyu; and many close friends and colleagues. He was preceded in death by his son Christopher, and his sisters Clara, Stephanie, and Margaret.
A memorial was held on Saturday, June 7, 2025, at the UU Church of Amherst, 6320 Main Street, Williamsville NY 14221.
The Rev. Weston “Wes” A. Stevens died on May 11, 2025, at the age of 93 (1932–2025).
Wes is survived by his wife Barbara Stevens; his daughters, Julie Arguelles (Mark) and Heather Wight (Clint); his son David Stevens (Rachel); and four grandchildren, Danica, Drew, Lily, and Taegen.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of one’s own choosing. UURMaPA will contribute to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.”
A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed. It will be published in an upcoming issue of Elderberries and posted on the UURMaPA website.If any readers would wish to contribute information or reminiscences, we would welcome them. Please send them to UURMaPA’s clergy obituary editor, Rev. Jay Atkinson – jayatk40@gmail.com.
Carl Herbert Haag died at home on April 23, 2025, in Princeton NJ, 71 days shy of turning 97. He is remembered as being intelligent, kind, generous, humorous, creative, quirky and caring of everyone he met. He had a prodigious memory of people, places, food and factoids. He is survived by his wife, The Rev. Carol Haag, children Cindy and Ken, daughter-in-law Nikki and two grandchildren.
Carl was born July 3, 1928 in Cleveland OH, the only child of Anna and Albert Haag. He explored the city and the surrounding area with his mother and his childhood friend Herb Field. He and Herb spent a summer with a Mennonite family in Virginia that was a treasured memory. One of his delights as a child was becoming a magician. His mother and he were avid bicyclers. Later he led cycling trips with Canadian Youth Hostel in Canada and Europe. He took his wife and children on a cycling trip through the Canadian Rockies.
Carl was bright and attended accelerated classes. Following graduation, he enrolled in the US army knowing that the GI bill would help him go to college. Following WWII, he was sent to Japan in the Quarter Master Corp and loved exploring the country and learning about the culture. He chose Antioch College, graduating in 1952 after studying philosophy. Antioch was a significant influence and he took seriously Horace Mann’s challenge to “win some victory for humanity” before he died.
Following a stint in the admissions office at Case Tech, he achieved a PhD in Educational Psychology from the University of Michigan. While teaching there, he responded to a job offer at Educational Testing Service (ETS) in Princeton NJ. He was so intrigued with the Advanced Placement Program that he took the job. He worked as the Director of the AP program for 27 years.
ETS brought many good things into Carl’s life including his wife Alice Carol Schwartz. He saw her in a play as Mommy in the “American Dream” and thought she was dreadful, but when they took a walk at ETS and he saw her take her shoes off in the mud he fell in love with her. They were married on his birthday in 1965 at the Unitarian Church and made their life in Princeton for the next 60 years. They built a house in the woods and raised their two children in that house. Cindy Lara was born on New Year’s Day in 1968 and Kenneth Alan was born November 8, 1970. Carl created a magical, loving environment for them to grow up in. Long before he died Carl wrote a note for his family to find saying: “You were the best things in my life and I loved you deeply.”
Carl was an avid photographer, capturing his life experiences through photos from an early age. He photographed people, the natural world, every family occasion, and his many travels around the world.
Unitarian Universalism was very important to Carl, coming from a non-religious background. He was engaged at local, district and continental levels. He was president of the church, committee member, teacher, historian, library creator and welcomer. He was president of the Metro NY District and served on the Ministerial Fellowship Committee. As a board member of the Universalist Retreat Center Murray Grove, he helped save 200 acres of New Jersey shoreland. He also helped create and lead a men’s group that lasted for decades and continues on.
Carl was an avid collector and was fascinated by tools and antiques. He said he traveled to 3 corners of the world. He loved camping, canal barges, home exchanges, cruises and bicycle trips.
He was a great listener, asking engaging questions to draw someone out and learn about them. Carl’s creative way of seeing the world made him a great story-teller, talented historian and playful companion. He cared about the environment and social issues. He was a deeply loyal and caring friend, father and husband. Carl was a gentle, loving soul who made an indelible impression on the earth and will be deeply honored and missed.
There will be a memorial service later this summer at the Unitarian Church of Princeton NJ. Send inquiries to: susan@uuprinceton.org
The Rev. Marjorie Montgomery died on April 20, 2025, at the age of 89 (1935-2025).
Marjorie was born on December 2, 1935, in Buffalo NY, to Edward F. Wesp and Florence Norton Wesp, both of whom were committed lay leaders of the Lutheran Church. As a child, she spent hours in the Lutheran Church and cultivated an early love of traditional church music. During high school, she was involved in American Friends Service projects, which sparked her interest in understanding mysteries beyond tangible realities. In 1957, she graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in Music, specializing in piano and organ performance, from Wellesley College in Massachusetts. Following graduation, she taught private piano lessons and worked as a church choir director and organist. Thereafter, in 1959, she earned her Master’s in Religious Education from Union Theological Seminary in New York City.
In 1971, Marjorie made a significant decision to leave the Lutheran Church. After visiting a Unitarian Fellowship, she knew she had found her spiritual home. She was deeply moved by the UU atmosphere of intellectual openness, community service, diversity of opinion, growth of self and growth in relationships. She especially cherished the tradition’s ongoing search for ways to be both free and responsible. In pursuit of ministry with this new spiritual path, she earned her Master of Theology from Perkins School of Theology (Dallas TX) in 1976.
The Rev. Montgomery was ordained to the Unitarian Universalist ministry in 1977. Before her ordination, she served as a Director of Religious Education at the First Unitarian Church of Dallas TX (1975−1976). In 1976, she accepted a call from the First Church in Belmont MA, where she served until 1980. That year, she was called to All Peoples Church Unitarian Universalist in Fort Worth TX (previously First Jefferson UU Church), where she ministered for a decade until 1990. During her tenure, the church experienced a net growth of over 100 members, built a new sanctuary, expanded its adult education offering, and significantly increased its presence in the wider community. In recognition of her leadership, she was named minister emerita in 1995.
Following Fort Worth, the Rev. Montgomery served as an interim minister, helping the congregations in the time of change. She was a consulting minister for the UU Fellowship of Waco TX (1990−1992), and an interim minister to the UU Church of Las Cruces NM (1993); the UU Church of Tucson AZ (1994), and the First UU Church of Nashville TN (1995). From 1995–2001, she served as a religious education consultant for the Southwestern District, Fort Worth, TX. In 2001, she retired from ministry.
The Rev. Montgomery’s ministry was marked by genuine commitment and a keen sensitivity to the needs of others. She had a deep ability to accept people as they were, helped others find personal meaning in their lives, and was motivated to live a meaningful life not only for herself, but for all those around her. She could draw people to her; even in a large crowd, she somehow found a word for everyone.
In addition to her ministry, her services extended to the wider denomination. She served the Commission for Common Worship (1978−1982) and the Executive Committee of the Unitarian Universalist Ministers’ Association (UUMA) as a treasurer/secretary (1979−1983). She was President of the Southwest Chapter of the UUMA (1987−1989) and contributed to the Southwest UU Summer Institute. She remained an active participant of the Liberal Religious Educators Association (LREDA), the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee (UUSC), and facilitated the Retirement Planning Seminar in 1991. In community, Marjorie was a teaching advisor for Harvard Divinity School from 1978–1979. From 1990–1993, she served as a coordinator for CROP Walks for Hunger in Dallas TX, and was a member of the Dallas/Fort Worth Ministers Group.
In her leisure time, she found joy in a wide variety of creative pursuits. She enjoyed embroidery, sewing, piano, singing, hiking, biking, camping, swimming, skiing, card games, and macrame. Her son Philip shared, “Marjorie lived her life deliberately, and also lovingly.”
Marjorie is survived by her sons Philip and Richard, stepdaughters Janelle and Stacy, and granddaughters Natalie and Jessica. She is also survived by her sister Barbara Murry, and first cousin Jim Norton. She was preceded in death by her husband of 43 years Robert Duane Montgomery, former husband Dr. Joseph Terence Sams; and daughter Valerie.
A memorial service was held on May 8, 2025, at the Robert F. Jonas Chapel at Trinity Terrace in Fort Worth TX.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of one’s own choosing. UURMaPA will contribute to the UUMA Endowment Fund in honor of our colleague’s ministry.
A more complete obituary will be forthcoming after biographical research has been completed. It will be published in an upcoming issue of Elderberries and posted on the UURMaPA website.If any readers would wish to contribute information or reminiscences, we would welcome them. Please send them to UURMaPA’s clergy obituary editor, Rev. Jay Atkinson – jayatk40@gmail.com.
